Jeremy’s the quiet gentle teddy bear who greets you with a nervous giggle and some loving dig to make you laugh (or in my case, roll eyes). He’s the rock, the fixer, the strategist, the moral compass, and the most honest and genuine human you will ever meet. He will show up for you whenever you need him… Every single time… (and he will probably do so wearing Crocs.)
But now, he needs us.
We spent almost two months of concern for a growth on his neck we lovingly named “Billy” where we were assured there was a good chance it was “nothing to worry about”, “an overgrown thyroid from Hashimoto’s thyroiditis”, “a goiter”, “maybe a simple thyroid cancer easily surgically removed.” Unfortunately, not. Turns out… None of those things. We all had to guess because it had also been almost two months of fighting and waiting just to get radiology labs to make appointments and then finish the findings. After almost two months advocating, gratefully calling in favors with doctors who are friends, and people who know people…
We FINALLY have a conclusion.
Jeremy has cancer.
And not an easily surgically removed kind.
It’s the kind of cancer that needs a lot of chemo in order to pulverize it.
Non Hodgkins Type B Large Cell Lymphoma of the Mediastinum, to be specific.
It’s pushing on his chest, up to his neck, pressing on his larynx, enlarging his thyroid, chin, neck, and lymph nodes.
It’s currently stage 2B but if his bone marrow biopsy comes back positive, it will be reclassified stage 4.
And he’s going to get better.
He is.
Because he’s strong.
Because he believes in his doctor’s plan to treat it.
Because of Emmett.
Because of me.
Because we love him.
Because of his tribe. You know who you are, and we couldn’t have made it through this week without you.
Because of all of those wonderful people who jumped into action making meals, grocery shopping, watching our dogs, our Emmett, our home, our well being.
Because he’s young, vibrant, and has a whole life left to live.
Because he got this terrible disease in 2022 and not 1922.
Because he’s leaning on The Source of Life for courage and support.
Because life is worth living.
Some will read this and keep on scrolling.
That’s okay.
Some will read this, love Jeremy, and wonder what we can do to help.
We can pray.
Prayer alone is a paper with no pen.
It is going to be up to the universe, the doctors, the nurses, the love from family and friends, and then… it will depend on how this disease reacts to our best intentions and efforts.
We pray that the doctors and nurses minds are as sharp and possible so that they can care for and cure Jeremy.
We pray that the outcome is one that allows Jeremy lives long enough to meet his great grandchildren.
We pray that the harsh treatment does not dampen his quality of life, his zest for his work, and his abilities to be a dad.
We pray that Eternal Source is his companion through it all.
We pray AND we work hard to make it happen.
So, if we pray, his name for mi shebeirach is ירמיהו בן שרה (Yirmiyahu Ben Sarah).
If we are being called to action, feel free to reach out to my sister, Alana, for the meal train or other usually basic things we may be struggling to complete at this time. We also encourage you to pay closer attention to your own health, and stop putting off that doctor’s visit for your lumps, bumps, aches and pains.
If you have Jeremy’s number and want to reach out, feel free to text. If you want to visit with him during chemo infusions (they’re 6 days long every 3 weeks for 6 months), check in with him and see if he wants the company.
I know many of you noticed I was not in the beautiful Israel pictures and videos… We received news that this was serious 2 days before I was set to depart. Israel had to wait. We will happily go in good health in the near future.
This Father’s Day, I’m more grateful than ever for my soulmate, who has given his whole heart to being most loving daddy to Emmett. Happy Father’s Day, My Love.
May we look back next Father’s Day and remember the challenge of this Father’s Day as a mere memory, a blip in the story, a part of our journey through life.
Todah Rabbah ♥️
B’tikvah,
Cantor Hutchings 🎵
Conceiving Cantor 
I am saddened to read this. Positive thoughts and best wishes for a complete recovery. I’ve gotten Doug through 35 major surgeries, including 3 kidney transplants. Faith and hope. Your words and love are so moving.🥰
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My prayer are with you for a complete recovery🙏🙏🙏
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Sending so much love and wishes for patience, surrender and so much healing on this heavy journey.
What a wonderful family you are. While I don’t know Jeremy well I know how deeply he was appreciated by some mutual friends of ours.
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This IS quite the curveball. Fortunately, you are all experts at handling curveballs. Keeping you all in our prayers for full healing and strength during this time. Much love to you all. 🙏💞🙏💞🙏💞🙏💞🙏
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So beautifully written. We love you Jeremy! ♥️
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Sending a big hug to Jeremy, you and Emmett. You’re going to smash that curveball out of the park!! I just know it. Will keep you all in my prayers as this is tough even for the very strong.
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Though I ready knew the sad and shocking news, reading this still brought me to tears. I only wish I lived near by to step in to help. Jeremy is young and strong and with all of our prayers and your loving tribe that surrounds you, I’m confident he will be around to see his great grandchildren. Sending love to all of you! 💜🙏💜
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Cantor, I was so saddened to hear of this. It brings a tear to my eye and a tug to my heart. Recently you helped me when I had a hard health issue with a family member, and it truly helped me.
I am now ready to return the love. Plz let me know if I can return the gesture in ANY way. Pick up groceries, etc. 🙏💌
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Sending our love and healing prayers to Jeremy and your family. Positive attitude goes a long way during this fight against cancer. Wishing your family strength and courage. 💕
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You are the best example! You inspire us with your fight!!!
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Sending love and healings to Jeremy! I’ll reach out to Ilana to see how we can help. Stay strong and authentic are you’ve always been. Big hug, Noa
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Jessica, with you by Jeremy’s side, and with your beautiful voice reaching the heavens, your prayers of healing will be heard. Your “tribe” extends to a village and we will be there for you, just don’t hesitate to call upon us. Our Prayers to Jeremy in celebrating many many Father’s Days with his precious son Emmett Hugs and love,
Lois and Malcolm
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I’m sorry that you’re all having to go through this. Jeremy will triumph over this! I will definitely be saying Jeremy’s name during mi shebeirach. If there’s anything I can do, let me know. Sending you strength, love, peace and healing.
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Sending love and prayers for strength and healing to all of you. Jeremy, we know you will do amazing ❤️❤️
Felice and Teresa
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I’m so sorry to hear this news about Jeremy. My prayers are with you. Best wishes for a complete recovery.
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Prayers for a complete and speedy recovery. May you all find the inner strength that is necessary to weather this and come out stronger.
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Dear Extended Cousins,
So very sorry to read this post and your strength in writing it. Sending my prayers and healing wishes to Jeremy. Your strong will and lots of love from family and friends is comforting to all. Love, Cousin, Jackie
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Keeping Jeremy, you, Emmett and family in our hearts, prayers and thoughts. Sending peace, strength and hope for a full recovery ❤️❤️🩹❤️
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Jeremy is strong and has the love and support of this community. He will be fine but it will be hard. My prayers for him will be daily. A positive attitude is key. I will stay in touch.
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Jessica and Jeremy,
While we already knew this news, reading your heartfelt and detailed description moved us to tears. Know that we are here for you as needed while you adjust to this unwelcome new reality.
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Sending all my prayers and love to all three of you!! ❤️
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So sorry to hear this news. Sending prayers for a complete healing and strength at this difficult time.
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Wishing you and your family all our best. Will keep Jeremy and your entire family in our prayers.
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My heart hurts for you and your sweet family. On the outside looking in … everything looks perfect … and yet we know this is not the first challenge you’ve had to face.
I know, with every fiber of my being, that Jeremy will hit this curveball out of the park for a Grand Slam!!
May G-d grant you all strength to fight this battle … and may Jeremy have a complete and speedy recovery. ❤️🩹
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